Relationship & Marriage Counseling
If you’re looking for biblical wisdom to help your marriage, look no further than Diamond Bella Ministry INC. Christian Marriages & relationships often struggle to get timely help. Diamond Bella Ministry helps couples experience communication breakthroughs leading to improved marital/relationship communication, increased trust, and new levels of intimacy. The Bible is filled with wisdom for our everyday lives. Christian counseling reviews what the Bible has to say about marriage/relationships and how these principles can bring strength and security to your marriage. As we integrate biblical principles into our lives we will discover a personal relationship with God and a deeper more consistent connection with our spouse/loved one.
We offer confidential counseling services that can help you and your spouse work through any issue you may be facing. Our services are based on biblical wisdom and principles. We offer a variety of counseling services, including pre-marital counseling, couples counseling, and family counseling. We also offer Christian life coaching, which can help you achieve your personal and professional goals. Biblical counseling from a Christian perspective maximizes the potential for relationships that have experienced trauma to complete the healing process.
What to Expect During Christian Marriage Counseling
Open & Honest Communication
One of the most important things you can do for your marriage is to communicate with each other openly and honestly. This means being able to talk about both the good and the bad in your relationship.
It also means being willing to listen to your partner’s point of view, even if you don’t agree with it. When you’re able to have these kinds of honest conversations, it’s easier to work through difficult issues and grow closer as a couple.
Love & Affection
Show each other Love & Affection
It’s easy to take your partner for granted, especially if you’ve been together for a long time. But it’s important to remember that showing each other love and affection is an important part of keeping your relationship strong.
Whether it’s telling your partner how much you appreciate them or simply taking the time to cuddle on the couch, small acts of affection can make a big difference in the health of your marriage.
When working with couples it has become clear that affection can take on many different forms. It is important for both individuals to know, understand, and act in ways that their spouse feels love and affection. If you don’t know how your spouse feels affection ask questions and learn more about each other. Also, keep in mind that people can change. What someone may have wanted when they were younger may have changed. Keep the dialogue open, and share regularly.
Spend Time Together as a Couple
In today’s busy world, it’s all too easy to neglect your relationship in favor of work, family, or other obligations. But if you want your marriage to thrive, it’s important to make time for each other on a regular basis. This means setting aside time every week or month to go on dates, take walks together, or just spend some quality time together without distractions.
When you prioritize spending time together as a couple, it sends the message that your relationship is a priority in your life. If you have kids this is a powerful and important lesson to teach your kids. The Bible speaks about the covenant of marriage. Date nights are an example of prioritizing a relationship. Children feel comfort when they know mom and dad love each other.
More importantly, date nights communicate to your spouse that they are important to you and that the relationship is a priority in your life. Part of marriage counseling is finding a rhythm that will allow for consistent time together.
Invest in Your Own Personal Growth
It’s not enough just to invest in your relationship. You also need to invest in yourself as an individual. This means taking time for hobbies, interests, and activities outside of your marriage. In a Christian marriage, personal growth is related to growing and maturing in our faith.
It is incredibly hard for two unhealthy people to enjoy a healthy relationship. On the flip side, when two individuals invest in their personal life and build healthy habits, it becomes easier for them to build a life together. In Christian Counseling, individual spiritual health is a key foundation to the overall health of the relationship.
In counseling sessions, we will discuss your faith and look for ways to grow in your personal relationship with God. As each person grows in their faith and experiences the love, forgiveness, and purpose of God, the marriage will be strengthened.
Finally, one of the best things you can do for your marriage is to pray together regularly. Praying together gives you an opportunity to share both the good and the bad in your relationship with God and ask for His wisdom and guidance. It also helps you remain focused on what’s truly important in your marriage: glorifying God through everything that you do.
“Couples who pray together stay together.”
This is a simple but powerful statement. Throughout marriage counseling, we will be designing and building new patterns. Pray is one of the patterns that can serve as a powerful foundation for a Christian marriage. Prayer helps us to feel connected both to our spouse and to God.
Do you want a thriving Christian Marriage/Relationship?
If you want your Christian marriage to thrive, it takes effort and intentionality every day.
By following these five tips:
- communicating openly with each other
- showing love and affection
- spending quality time together
- investing in personal growth
- praying together
You can nurture a happy and healthy Christian marriage/relationship that will last a lifetime (both have to be committed).
Counseling process builds upon the biblical principles of the Christian faith.
What to Expect?
1. Book your appointment
2. Wait for confirmation email for booking
3. come back to the counseling page at your scheduled time and click on the live chat box and provide your name and email address for verification and your session begins.